Nigerian choreographer Kafayat Shafau, but widely known as Kaffy, narrated how her ex husband had sex with her best friend.
She recounted her marriage ordeal on #WithChude with Chude Jideonwo – accusing Joseph Ameh of infidelity.
According to the dance instructor: “Lemme tell you when I started getting more healing…when I stopped sleeping with my husband. I was celibate with my husband for three years before I got a divorce. There are different red flags that we women in love are so blind to see.”
She also claimed on the show that, while Joseph was having romance with other women under her nose, he had sizzling roman with her best friend.
Read: Why I divorced my husband – Kaffy
“I have always wanted to see the best vision of my ex and even taking the chance of breaking this marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really really are supposed to be,” she said.
“Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine really didn’t work out that way. And rather than looking at someone as the problem maybe you could be the problem of that person.”
She also revealed that separation isn’t a reason for both parties to become strangers or enemies.
“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be. Some people make it back, some don’t. What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!” she captioned the video.
The marriage between Kaffy and Joseph Ameh had undergone severe upheavals before it crashed finally – given the accusation of infidelity on the part of her husband, leading to her filling for divorce in 2021. The duo who are blessed with two children, were married in 2012.
